The New Wedding: Modern Replacements for Old Traditions
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Weddings are full of traditions. While some have their place, many are in need of a shakeup. Can you have a chic wedding that incorporates old customs? Here are seven wedding traditions with a modern twist.
Wearing White
Brides traditionally wore white to symbolize purity. Purity is infrequently an issue in today’s modern world and many brides look for something different. Wedding dresses are now available in every color. If you choose not to go with a different color entirely, you can always wear a bold-colored sash or tie a colored ribbon in your hair.
Wearing a Veil
Back in the day, wearing a veil came from the belief a bride should keep her face covered at all times until she is married. Many brides today feel that although this may still be practiced in some parts of the world, in the west, it’s not necessary. Tiaras, headbands, and flowers are excellent alternatives.
Matching Bridesmaids Dresses
The act of bridesmaids wearing the same dress that closely matched the brides was a ritual designed at confusing evil spirits who would not know which individual was the bride. Nowadays you can let your maids to choose their own dress in a certain color if you want. Another twist on this tradition is to select the same dress but in different shades of the same color.
The Walk Down the Aisle
Tradition states the bride’s father walks her down the aisle. This is rooted in the old belief that when a woman marries, the father gives her away as property. Today it is more a sign of love and the bond between you. Some women have both parents walk her down the aisle, or another person that is very important. Others are walked only halfway down the aisle, at which point the groom will come and take her to the altar.
Throwing Rice
Throwing rice as you exit the ceremony site used to symbolize that the guests wished for the couple’s happiness and that they would never go hungry. Then we found the rice was eaten by birds, which lead to their death. Not the best sentiment to start your marriage on! Confetti is a standard romantic alternative but you can also throw birdseed, blow bubbles, or even release butterflies.
Receiving Line
Receiving lines first came into existence as it was thought that newlywed couples gave luck to everyone they touched. That is no longer the belief and receiving lines can sometimes be awfully long. Many couples opt instead to visit each table separately during the reception and have a more meaningful conversation with their guests than simply shaking their hand or getting a peck on the cheek.
Bouquet Toss
Traditionally the single woman to catch the bouquet is the next one to marry. That of course, is not true but it can add a little extra fun to the wedding. It can also make single guests feel uncomfortable and as a result many brides forego the toss. Instead, you could give your bouquet to grandparents in the family that are about to celebrate an anniversary, or have celebrated one recently.
